Dear Steve and Shirley,
I've been with my wife since we were in high school. I can't lie. I've cheated a couple of times, but those women never meant anything to me. Our sex life was terrible. After my wife had our son, she couldn't get the weight off and she told me she lost your sex drive because of it. I felt like cheating was my only option.
Now that the tables have turned, I realized how stupid I was and how much fidelity hurts the other person. So here's my story. My wife got on weight loss medicine and she's lost twenty pounds.
She is confident and fly. Like she was when she was twenty one, but she will not let me get near her. She started hiding her phone from me, so I knew what was up. I checked her phone and saw the messages from her boyfriend. He said he's falling in love with her. Apparently he's married too. I kept reading and realized he's pressuring her to sleep with him, and she kept telling him she's not a cheater.
So I did what any husband would do. I kept her phone. She thought she lost it in the grocery store, and I told her I would order her a new one. She had no idea that I was talking to her boyfriend, and he thought I was her. He agreed to come to my house to see my wife, thinking that she'd be home alone.
He came over Saturday, and I waited for him to pull up. I went outside. My wife didn't react when she saw him. I told that dude, who is overweight, that my wife is off limits, and I will tell his wife and show her the text if he ever reached out to my wife again.
I went inside and gave my wife her phone back. She said I had no right to do that. Was I supposed to let her cheat? How can she be mad at me for this?