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On the September 11th, 2025 episode of The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Steve Harvey got personal and profound when asked about the biggest mistake he hopes others won’t repeat. His answer? Choosing the wrong person to spend your life with.
Steve didn’t sugarcoat it. He shared that while all of his children were born within marriage, every one of those relationships was a mistake. That’s a bold statement, but it came from a place of wisdom and experience. He emphasized that outside of your relationship with God, the person you choose to marry is the most important decision you’ll ever make.
Why? Because that choice affects everything—your peace, your purpose, your parenting, and your future. Steve’s advice to his sons (and to listeners) was clear: “Be very careful, be very deliberate, and be very thoughtful of who you choose to spend the rest of your life with.”
He praised his son Jason, who is married and raising kids, calling him “the best dad I’ve ever seen.” But he also warned his other sons, who aren’t married yet, not to rush into anything. Steve’s message was that love isn’t just about chemistry or attraction—it’s about compatibility, values, and long-term vision.
This segment resonated deeply with listeners because it’s a reminder that relationships aren’t just emotional—they’re strategic. Choosing the wrong partner can lead to years of pain, while choosing wisely can lead to a lifetime of joy.
So if you’re in a relationship or thinking about marriage, take a moment to reflect. Are you choosing someone who aligns with your values, supports your growth, and brings peace to your life? If not, it might be time to rethink.
As Steve said, “Don’t make the mistake I made. Get this one right.”
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